Religion has existed from the start of humankind. Majority of the people follow the religions like Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism, Muslim etc. It is all upon our belief and values. We have been following the religion from our childhood and we are taught what is right or wrong. Simply, religion shows us the path to be a good decent person in our life. More than showing the path to followers, it has become totally a business. People are wasting their money in the name of religion. People are getting tricked in the name of religion.

In my point of view, religion is totally a business. It is a much bigger business than we thought. Religion annually contributes about 1.2 trillion dollars of socio economic value. It is a big number. Religion is a better business than others. People undoubtedly follow their religion but they don't realize that they are being tricked. We know that religion is a part of our culture and traditions. But for the people who kept the religion as a business; it can be a plus factor for them. They have been tricking us for years in the name of traditions and culture. Our holy books have never taught us to follow religion. It preaches of love, compassion and kindness. But people have converted it into business. 

The sad reality is that we see people outside the holy places like in church, temples etc who are hungry, homeless and need help but we just ignore it instead. There was a scam held by a group which is still unknown. They raised a camp where they said that they will help the needy people in the name of this religion but it was a fraud they just ran away by taking all the money. People didn't even try to research whether it is a trusted source or not, they just saw a religious name and started giving money. This is not the one case there are thousands like them. The donations are coming but when it comes to helping the needy people the money disappears. 

All the public money had been wasted. But the people can not understand it, Especially in my context I belong to a religious family background when I tried to tell them about it. They just neglected it and started scolding me. Some may agree and some may not. In my country the majority of the people believe in religions and are ready to do whatever they can do for it. We can easily see that religion is business but people do not want to accept it. People are ready to give money for the religions but the same people will not be ready to give money for the needy people. There is a case where a beggar was beaten by the locals and pujari when the beggar tried to eat the prasad. By listening to these kinds of things. Sometimes I doubt the religions.

“Religions have been part of our culture and we cannot doubt our cultures.” I used to hear about it. But some cultures and traditions need to be changed like untouchability, deuki pratha, chaupadi pratha etc. I am not saying that we do not need religion and it is a fake but I am saying that religion is just a belief but outside of religion there are many people who need help. 

संयुक्त राष्ट्र सङ्घ एक अन्तराष्ट्रिय संस्था हो । यसको स्थापना २४ अक्टोबर १९४५ मा भएको हो। यसमा हाल १९३ राष्ट्रहरू सदस्य छन् । जसमा संसारका धेरै जसो देशहरू पर्छन् । सबै सदस्य राष्ट्रहरूलाई अन्तर्राष्ट्रिय कानुन, अन्तर्राष्ट्रिय सुरक्षा, आर्थिक विकास र सामाजिक निष्पक्षतामा आपसी सहयोग मिलोस् भन्ने उद्देश्यका साथ संयुक्त राष्ट्रसङ्घको स्थापना भएको हो । नेपालले यसकाे सदस्यता सन् १९५५ डिसेम्बर १४ मा पाएकाे हाे । खासगरी अन्तर्राष्ट्रिय सङ्घर्षमा हस्तक्षेप गर्ने सहज होस् भनी दाेस्राे विश्वयुद्धका विजयी राष्ट्रहरू मिलेर यसको स्थापना भएको हो। तिनको सोचाइमा दोस्रो विश्वयुद्धमा भोगिएको विध्वंस संसारले फेरि भोग्नु नपरोस् भन्ने थियो ।

नेपालले पनि अन्तर्राष्ट्रिय शान्ति सुरक्षाका लागि धेरै पहिलेदेखि निरन्तर (संयुक्त राष्ट्र शान्ति स्थापना कार्यहरू) (यु एन.पिस किपिङ अपरेशन) मा सहभागिता जनाउँदै आएको छ । सयुंक्त राष्ट्रसंघमा नेपालले पनि महत्त्वपूर्ण भूमिका खेल्दै आएको छ ।

१ शान्ति स्थापना कार्यमा सहभागिता: नेपालले युएनओको सदस्य भएदेखि शान्ति स्थापना कार्यमा सक्रिय सहभागिता जनाएको छ । नेपालले शान्ति स्थापनार्थ नेपाल प्रहरी, नेपाली सेनाहरूलाई विभिन्न देशमा शान्ति सुरक्षा कायम गर्न पठाएको छ । नेपाल संयुक्त राष्ट्रसंघको शान्ति सुरक्षामा योगदान दिने देशहरूमध्ये चौथो नम्बरमा पर्छ।

२.निशस्त्रीकरणको लागि समर्थन : नेपालले निशस्त्रीकरणको समर्थन गर्न विभिन्न सन्धिहरूमा हस्ताक्षर पनि गरेको छ । आणविक हतियारको प्रयोग र निर्माणको विरुद्धमा पनि हस्ताक्षर गरेको छ ।

३. विभन्न देशको न्यायका लागि आवाज उठाउँदै आएको : नेपाल जहिले पनि शान्तिको पक्षमा भएकाले आक्रमण र हिंसाका विरुद्ध आवाज उठाउँदै आएको छ । नेपाल युएनमा सबै राष्ट्रहरूले उचित अधिकार पाउनुपर्छ भन्ने कुरामा आवाज उठाउँदै आएको छ । अल्पविकसित र विकासोन्मुख राष्ट्रका हितमा नेपालले आवाज उठाउँदै आएको छ ।

४.युएनमा प्रतिनिधित्व : नेपाल राष्ट्रसंघीय सुरक्षा परिषदको स्थायी सदस्यको रूपमा निर्वाचित भइसकेको छ ।

यसरी नेपालले शान्ति सुरक्षा निशस्त्रीकरणमा समर्थन सही कुराको लागि आवाज उठाएर संयुक्त राष्ट्रसंघमा महमहत्त्वपूर्ण भूमिका निर्वाह गरेको छ । त्यसैगरी युएनले पनि नेपालको विकास व्यवस्थापन लोकतन्त्र र शान्ति स्थापनका लागि महत्त्वपूर्ण भूमिका निर्वाह गर्दै आइरहेको छ ।

Everyone knows that Nepal is a small and beautiful country in the world picture. We Nepalese always feel proud that we were never ruled by anyone but seeing at the present scenario we are in the colonies of many countries. Nepal has a good constitution but observing the practical basis there is no proper execution of the constitution. “Truth is always bitter but it is what it is”. The political leaders here in Nepal lack nationalism. From the past to till now no one has proper vision and mission. Observing from past to present there is always political instability. The condition of our country is getting worse day by day and all the youth are getting frustrated. Our country Nepal is called a country of peace but seeing the  current  situation of our country I just don’t think it is right to call Nepal a  country of true peace.

Political parties are sheep farms and political leaders are shepherds and Nepalese peoples are sheep and goats.  Youngsters are heading towards foreign countries and the reason is that skilled human resources are not properly utilized here. There is no efficient and effective use of proper human resources. There is still poverty, unemployment and illiteracy. There is a running inflation rate.  Governmental and non governmental institutions are not properly well managed.  It sounds unbelievable but still in the 21st century untouchability exists. Other countries are the playmakers of Nepal and the political leaders are the players. Most of the political leaders are RAW agents, CIA agents, and Chinese agents. It is an open secret that political agents took salaries from respective embassies. Political leaders do not have any political principal, ideology, mission, vision and goal. No one has a proper plan to run an administration. There is always political interference from other countries. The main main decisions of our country are made by India, China and America. The majority always decides what to do. No one respects the voice of minorities. There is deep rooted corruption in Nepal. The country is captured by all INGO and NGO. Nepal’s economy is weak. Administrative activities are done through foreign donations and remittances. We are not able to produce anything. The country which was earned by the forefather has not received justice and how can we expect justice  from the judiciary  in a country where the king has not received justice. Justice is only earned by only powerful people. Education system of Nepal is totally theoretical based. There is no proper provision of practical education. There is no proper political awareness in our society. There is a lack of well educated  economists, social activists, human  right activists, and opposition in the house of representatives. Think tanks are selled. The bureaucracy of the country is devastating. There is a so -called democracy system in Nepal. 

The fundamental root of any country is politics. Being a Nepali citizen I genuinely thought that if we failed to find any alternative political leadership within the next five year then there are “concrete consequences”  we may face in near future. I am afraid that those days may not be so far away. We should be able to check and balance between what's wrong and what’s right.

कुनै एउटा गाउँमा सुरज नाम गरेको एउटा केटा बस्थ्यो । उसको घरमा काकाकाकी र उनीहरूको छोरा करण थियो । सुरजका बाबुआमा ऊ सानै हुँदा परलाेक गएका थिए । बाबु आमा नभएको सुरजलाई काकाकाकी ले हेला गर्थे । विद्यालयमा पनि उसलाई धेरै साथीले जिस्काउँथे । ऊ सबै सहन्थ्याे । कुनै प्रतिकार गर्दैनथ्याे 

दिनदिनै सबैको हेला र घृणाको पात्र भए बस्नुभन्दा घर छाड्नु उपयुक्त विकल्प भएको सोच्छ र घरबाट भाग्ने योजना बनाउँछ । एक रात सुरज काका सुत्ने कोठामा गएर काकाको तिजोरीबाट त्यहाँ भएको सबै पैसा निकाल्छ र घरबाट निस्किन्छ । घरबाट भागेपछि अन्त कतै नगई विदेश जाने योजना बनाउँछ । विदेशमा गएर मानिसले धेरै पैसा कमाएको आफ्नै घर बनाएको देख्छ । ऊ पनि पैसा कमाएर आफ्नै घर बनाएर बस्ने योजना बनाउँछ ।

विदेश जाने काम सोचे जस्तो सजिलो हुँदैन भन्ने सोचेर विदेश गएर पढ्ने योजना बनाउँछ । विदेश जाने सम्बन्धित निकायमा सम्पर्क गर्छ र विदेश जान्छ । विदेश पढ्न गएपछि पढ्दै जागिर पनि गर्छ । हुनत : उसले सोचे जस्तो सजिलाे हुँदैन । त्यहाँ पनि उसले पढ्नका लागि सङ्घर्ष गर्छ। अन्ततः आफ्नो पढाइ पूरा गरेपछि ऊ दीक्षित हुन्छ । अनि उसले राम्रो कम्पनीमा जागिर खान्छ। जागिर खाँदै गर्दा उसका नयाँ नयाँ साथी बन्छन् । अनि सबै मिलेर एउटा उद्योग खोल्छन् ।

समय बित्दै जाँदा उसलाई आफ्ना काकाकाकीको याद आउँछ । आफू सानो हुँदाको गाउँ अहिले कस्तो भयो होला भन्ने सम्झन्छ । अनि गाउँ जाने निर्णय गर्छ। गाउँ जान्छ र काकाकाकीसँग माफी माग्छ । काकाकाकीले पनि आफूले उसलाई नराम्रो व्यवहार गरेको सम्झन्छन् । अनि उससँग माफी माग्छन् । उसले करणलाई नदेखे पछि सोध्छ । उनीहरू केही बोल्न सक्दैनन् । आँखाबाटआँसु चुहाउँछन् । करणको मृत्यु भएको कुरा उसले थाह पाउँछ । काकाकाकीलाई अङ्‌गालो हालेर रुन थाल्छ । उनीहरूले उसलाई विदेश नगई त्यही बस्न आग्रह गर्छन्। ऊ एकपटक विदेश गएर आफ्नो काम हरहिसाब मिलाएर आएपछि त्यही बस्ने निर्णय गर्छ । यो सुनेर उनीहरू खुसी हुन्छन् । अब बिगत बिर्सेर वर्तमानमा रमाउन थाल्छन् । 

कुरा विसं २०६२ सालभन्दा अगाडिको हो । नेपालमा तत्कालीन साशन व्यवस्था विरुद्ध सशस्त्र आन्दोलन सुरु भइसकेको थियो । सीता त्यतिबेला सानै  थिई । उसको दैनिकी भनेको विद्यालय जाने आउने मात्र थियो । आमा गृहिणी मात्र भएकाले घरको काम गर्नुहुन्थ्यो । बुबा प्रेसमा काम गर्नुहुन्थ्यो । बुबाको पेसा अलि जोखिम खालको थियो । देश परिवर्तन गर्न भनी हिँडेका विद्राेही पक्ष उसकाे बुबाका पछि परेका थिए । सरकार र विद्राेही पक्षका घटना बाहिर ल्याउनु जनतालाई सुसुचित गराउनु उनको पत्रकारिताको मूल मर्म थियो । त्यसैले बुबाको घाँटीमा हात राख्न खोज्ने धेरै थिए ।

देशमा आन्दोलन चर्किदै थियो । ठाउँ ठाउँमा बम पड्केर मानिसहरू मरेका समाचार दैनिक आइरहन्थे । कति निर्दाेष मानिसले ज्यान गुमाइरहेका थिए । कतिले बाबुआमा त कतिले आफ्ना सन्तान गुमाइरहेका थिए । यस्ता समाचार छाप्नु पर्दा उनी निकै दु:खी ।  थिए आर्थिक रूपमा मध्यम वर्गीय सीताको परिवार सुरक्षाका दृष्टिले अलि असुरक्षित नै थिए । एकदिन केही मानिस सीताको घरमा आए । उनको बुबासँग केही काम छ भनेर लिएर गए । सीता नचिनेका मानिसले बुबालाई किन लिएर गए भन्दै लुकेर रुन थाली । एक छिनपछि केही मानिसहरू आए र आमालाई पनि लिएर गए । सीताले केही बुझ्न सकिन आमाबाबा आउने बाटो हेर्न थाली  । बाटो हेर्दै जाँदा उसका कैयौँ दिनरात बिते तर उसका बुबाआमा फर्केर आएनन् । उसले गाउँका जान्ने बुझ्ने सबैलाई सोधी । उसका बाबाआमालाई देश परिवर्तन गर्न हिँडेका समूहले लिएर गएका रहेछन्। उसले आफन्तको सहयोगमा आमा बाबाको खोजी त गरी तर उसका आमाबाबा ऊ ठुली हुँदासमेत फर्केर आएका छैनन् ।

अहिले सीता ठुली भइसकी । बेपत्ता नागरिककाे सूचीमा उसका बाबाआमा छन् । उसले साेध्छे “खै मेरा बाआमा”  उनीहरू कहिले आउँछन् ? उसले कहिले न्याय पाउँछे ? देश परिवर्तन गर्न हिँडेका शक्ति नै अहिले सरकारमा छन् । सीता जस्ता धेरै छोराछोरी न्याय कुर्दा कुर्दै बसेका छन् । थाह छैन न्याय कहाँ छ; न्यान्य कहिले आउँछ ?

Many people don't deserve your beautiful words, they just deserve your silence. 

I stayed silent to the people who deserved it. I didn't speak a word even though I had a lot to say. Silence is sometimes better than any explanation. I had become silent to people who were just trying to hurt me, who never wanted to see me succeed. To the people who always wanted some kind of agenda to make me look bad in front of other people. I realized that silence is the best answer to some questions because you know who you are and you have to be yourself. It's not necessary to prove to everyone or explain about how you feel to every person because the real ones never judge you or ever question your failure. If you try to explain or give answers to people who back bite you or try to make you wrong in front of others just know that your beautiful words are just going in vain. You are wasting your words to people who deserve your silence. Back then I was a person who used to explain my feelings to others, who would spell out everything, I would prove myself to others, I would seek for appreciation if I had done something good but when I started being judged, discouraged, back bitten I stopped. The moment I heard my closest one judging me on my words which I had shared with them, I was shattered, it completely broke me. I got hurt and it was all my fault for not understanding whether the person I was spelling my words to was the right person or not. Time changes everything including the people in our lives. Your very close ones can also one day judge you or discourage you. So it's you yourself who should never stop loving yourself, you have to prove yourself not others because at the end it's only you who is left with you. Stay silent when someone tries to make you feel bad because we live in a society where people judge us at every step. Numbers of eyes are filled with questions whenever we take any step. Many questions get asked too, many rumors about you can get spread. But it's not necessary to answer every question and react to every rumor. People will tell you awful things which might hurt you and might discourage you but you first need to understand that you work, you succeed, you stay silent, you win. Stay silent when someone tries to break your confidence and move on. Just know that when you succeed people envy you. They will surely try to pull your leg. If their act won't make that happen then they use words. Words hurt the most. They start telling different stories, they make it up, try to make you look bad in front of others but remember if you argue you lose because that shows you are trying to prove yourself to someone else who doesn't even care about you, who doesn't even matter to you. They just envy you because of your success. It's not mandatory that you have to prove to the whole world who you are, it's just that you have to prove yourself , have faith or faith in yourself.  Stay silent, give a smile and walk like you have won the whole day because the day you explain your success rather than explaining to others what you have achieved you will surely be much more fortunate. If you think you have to answer some questions then go for it. If not then just let it go, move on and focus on yourself. You don't need to answer back to the people who try to make you look bad, you just need to wait for a proper day. A day when you become so successful that the people around you will finally be waiting to listen to you untold words. 

अड्की गएँ खै किन शून्यतामा आज

भुली गएँ त्यो तस्बिर  भिडहरू माझ

बाटाे हेर्दा कुर्दा परिसक्याे साँझ

गर्ने मेराे चाह छ; है त्याे दिलभित्र राज ।

गुलाबी त्यो तिम्रो संसारमा

डुब्ने रहर थियो र छ अधरमा

तिम्रो न्यानो अङ्‌गालोमा हराउन मन छ

त्यो दिलभित्र यो दिल मेरो बसाउन मन छ ।

दिनहरू गनी कुरी बसूँ बसूँ लाग्छ ।

जून जस्तो त्यो मुहार म कसोरी भुलूँ ?

छायाँ बनी हिँड्छु म त तिम्रै वरिपरि। 

तिम्रो याद किन आउँछ मलाई घरीघरी। 

किनाराले किनारालाई पर्खी बसे जस्तै। 

पर्खेको छु मैले पनि तिमीलाई उस्तै।। 

के वर्णन गरूँ खै छैन शब्द अहिले। 

मेरो जीवन रहेसम्म दिन्न धोका कैले।।

One gets famous when they’ve reached a commendable feat and achieved success. People also get famous when they’re celebrities or if they’re influencers. Fame and success can change one's life completely. People can go from having no means of living to having almost everything because of fame. It plays a big role in making a person and also breaking a person. When you have a widespread reputation around, it really also impacts your life in many ways. The impacts can always have a negative or a positive ring to it.

Fame has always affected one’s life. It influences a person’s status in the society. Many people are famous for their achievements, sayings, works, careers and social activities. However, it is undoubtedly true that most people get famous from the entertainment industry. The entertainment industry holds a lot of fame in general along with the people working in the industry. Fame can always play out in an unpredictable manner. It can impact a person’s life heavily.

There are many ways of how fame can play out in a person’s life. Fame can always give a person success however we shouldn’t forget that everyone has a different perception of success. One’s social standing can easily change because of the fame they receive. It changes the way of how society views them. For example, if the society was scorning at one person before and they suddenly become famous, maybe from the entertainment industry; the society will change the way they looked at that person immediately. And sometimes it can also change the way of how a person views themselves. It is good to have confidence in yourself however people sometimes tend to get cocky and arrogant after getting fame. This is very common these days especially. When one starts getting fame in the entertainment industry or anywhere even, they sometimes tend to get a little too prideful. People even sometimes start to think that they are the center of the world and everything else revolves around them.

Similarly, fame can also have other impacts. One of them would be how they completely take over and influence one's life. Fame isn’t always a good thing and it also isn’t always wanted. Sometimes the audience or the viewers dwell about a famous figure too often and they tend to get nosy. There is also no personal space given to many stars and figures. Most of the time, the audience is just waiting for the celebrity to make a single mistake and turn it into a big issue. This problem has been going around for a long time now. Celebrities are loved by many but are also constantly torn down. Every action they make gets monitored and watched just waiting for them to make a single mistake. This is also how cancel culture gets introduced in the picture. 

In my opinion, one really shouldn’t let fame get in the way of living their life. Happiness and satisfaction is what really matters and people’s negative opinions should just be ignored as they are useless to be paid attention to. It is also important for us to maintain our moral principles and values in the face of fame. No matter how tempting it may be we should never give in to the pleasure of being famous and stick to our principles.

नेपाली राजनीति, संसद र सार्वजनिक पदमा अझै पनि महिलाको प्रतिनिधित्व पुरुषको तुलनामा कम छ । राजनीतिमा महिलाको सहभागिताले लैङ्गिक समानतालाई अगाडि बढाउन मद्दत गर्छ ।  महिलाहरू चुनावमा धेरै अगाडि बढिरहेका छन् तर प्रतिनिधित्व पुरुषको तुलनामा उनीहरूको सङ्ख्या निकै पछाडि छ । नेपालमा कुल जनसङ्ख्याकाे आधाभन्दा बढी महिला भए पनि उनीहरू निकै पछाडि परेका छन् । विकसित देशहरूमा हेर्ने हो भने त्यहाँको राजनीतिमा महिला पुरुष सरह वा सोभन्दा बढी पनि छन् । जसले गर्दा महिला हकहित र समानता पनि समान नै देखिन्छ ।

नेपाली राजनीतिमा महिला विरुद्धको कलङ्क अझै जीवित  छ। उनीहरूले सामाजिक, आर्थिक, संस्थागत र सांस्कृतिक अवरोधहरूको सामना गरिरहेका छन् । ती अवरोधहरूलाई सम्बोधन गर्न सरकार, नागरिक समाज, सञ्चारमाध्यम, शिक्षाविद् तथा सरोकारवाला सबैले प्रयास गर्नुपर्छ।

जर्मनमा महिला हकहित र अधिकारका लागि जे जस्तो कठोर सङ्‌घर्ष क्लारा जेटकिनले गरिन् । त्यस्तो सङ्‌घर्ष विश्वका जुनसुकै महिलाले पनि गर्न सक्छन् । आफ्ना हक र अधिकारका लागि महिला नै अघि बढ्नुपर्छ । राजनीतिमा महिला सहभागिता बढ्नु भनेको देश विकासको गतिमा अगाडि फड्को मार्नु हो । यदि राजनीतिमा महिला सहभागिता बढ्यो भने समग्र राष्ट्र, समाज र परिवार पनि सुधारिन्छ । विभिन्न हिंसा भोगिरहेका महिलाले पनि आफू विरुद्ध भइरहेका अन्यायका विरुद्ध आवाज उठाउन सक्छन् । त्यस्तै विश्वव्यापी विकास लक्ष्यहरू पूरा गर्न र दिगो लोकतन्त्रको निर्माणमासमेत महिला राजनीतिले सहयाेग पुर्‍याउने छ । समावेशी, जवाफदेही र पारदर्शी लोकतन्त्रको विकासका लागि पनि राजनीतिमा महिलाकाे सहभागिता नभई हुँदैन ।

As I am writing this letter I remember a lot of things about my past self. I remember my behavior, I remember my old self, I remember my friends, studies, my face, my school. There is really a lot stored in the past when you actually think about it. I remember all the good things that happened to me and all the bad things that happened to me. And just to be clear I am writing this letter to my 13 year old self, which is 2 years ago from now. As a 13 year old I was studying in grade 7 at Deerwalk Sifal School in the basic block.

I would first write to myself about all the difficult times that I would have to face through in the coming two years. But most importantly I would definitely encourage myself to study more and work hard because frankly speaking I am not and I was not that good at my studies because I just don’t work hard enough. So I would definitely encourage myself to study. The second thing I would do would be to be aware of all the bad things I would do. I mean if I would actually get a letter to myself from the future I would definitely try to avoid the things that would not do me good.

I remembered myself from the past and I saw myself change a lot, both physically and mentally. Two years ago I was like a small kid. I was short height, my voice was like a small kid’s voice, squeaky.. I had no worries for everyone. But as I look at myself right now in the mirror I really have changed a lot and people do not realize that until and unless you actually give a deep thought about it. I have grown a lot taller, my voice became deeper and I changed a lot mentally. My father went abroad so I am kind of like “the man of the house”. So I keep on helping my family a lot in any way that I can. If someone tells me to do something or some work , I will complain about it but in the end I do it and finish the work. But in my older self I would not have done the same. I would have ignored the work.

So I developed a sense of responsibility towards my family. And I would include this in my letter to my old self. I would tell myself to be more helpful, to try to do the work given to me. There are so many things that I don't remember 2 years ago but these basically are the points that I would have surely included in the letter that I wrote to my past self. But the most important thing I realized while writing this is that We change so much from our past that we won’t realize it. We can have a huge change in us just in one week and we won’t even realize it.

But to be frank, if I could actually write a letter to my past self then I would prefer not to, because life would be boring. If I were to get a letter sent to me by my future self I would come to know all of my weaknesses and I would try to improve them but I would like myself to realize and improve my weaknesses by myself. I would hate it if any other person or even my future self would do that.

Everyone owns something and some precious items to treasure in their life. At any point in a time one of your belongings will encourage or motivate you to do something. On the other hand some things will remind you of your past, discourage you, or make you  remember something either good or bad moments. Without realizing it some of your belongings change your personality, characteristics and your behavior.  

The emotional bondage that we have with our daily life utilities, accessories, materials, ets are so high that if even one of them were to be missing the sensation of discomfort immediately comes to our minds. Even if you had forgotten one of your belongings it won’t stop bugging you unless you either totally forget about it or go and get it. In simple terms it is what we call an invisible influence. Everyone has their own perspective of rights and wrongs and they weigh their options on what’s good for them. For example, when you are at a restaurant and after you eat your dinner, a waiter asks if you would like to take some desserts. The option may vary from saving your money to eating till you're full. 

An invisible influence is about the simple, and often surprising ways how others affect our behavior. There are many ways your belongings influence you to become someone else in which you will admire for your lifetime. Belongings that someone gifted you, some that you found, some that were taken from you and some that you may have forgotten. “I trust that everything happens for a reason, even if we are not wise enough to see it.” as said by Oprah Winfrey, states that even if we are not capable of seeing something that is there, it is still affecting you in a good way. It goes the same way with one's belongings, even if you have it laying in a room for your entire life, by just looking at it you are slowly changing in a positive way. For example there are many items that have good ratings for positive influence but in reality it is just some rock painted into a shiny sparkling necklace, rings, etc, it means that the mental state of someone changes with just a bit of belief. 

It has been researched that the majority of people or all of us are getting influenced by the minor detailed belongings that we own till now. Even older people don’t just form bonds with their specific belongings, they have an affection for brands from their youth too. Usually this is in a taste for music, books, films and other entertainment from their perception, but the same has been shown for fashions and hairstyles.

In conclusion, yes it can be observed that most of our belongings affect us in a minor way time and time again in a positive and in a negative way to bring you to the right path. It happens in the duration of every age and with their own perception or opinion and choice of their mentality state.

म बिस्तारामा   थिएँ ।  नयाँ बर्ष आउन थालेको थियो  । आमा बाबा समाचार  हेर्दै हुनुहुन्थ्याे । केही समयपछि समाचार सकियो ।  म गएर अर्को च्यानल लगाउन थाले त्यति नै बेला  बाबाले चिनमा काेराेना भन्ने भाइरस आएछ । याे नयाँ किसिमकाे भाइरस हाे रे, कहाँबाट आयाे कसैलाईथाहा छैन रे  भन्नुभयो । बाबाले समाचारमा यी सबै कुरा आएकाे रे भन्नुभयाे ।  कुरैकुरामा विद्यालय जान पनि ढिला भयाे । हतार गरेर  म विद्यालय पुगेँ । विद्यालयमा पनि काेराेना भाइरसकाे कुरा चलेकाे रहेछ । । बेलुका छुट्टी भएपछि म घर आएँ ।  मोबाइल चलाउनु पर्‍यो भनेर मोबाइल खोलेको  त जता तेतै कोरोनाको खबर थियो। मलाई  काराेना भाइरसले त्यस्ताे जटिल रूप लिँदैन भन्न्े लागेकाे थियाे ।  त्यसैले मैले त्यति वास्ता गरिनँ ।

जति दिनहरू बढ्दै गए त्यति नै काेराेना भाइरसकाे हल्ला बढ्दै गयाे । यता काठमाडौंमा पनि कोरोना सङ्क्रमित देखिन थाल्याे । विद्यालयले पनि छिटाे छिटाे परीक्षा सकेर बिदा दिने निर्णय गरे । । हाम्रो स्कुलले पनि त्यसरी नै छिटो परीक्षा  सकेर हामीलाई बिदा दियो । बिदा हुने खबर सुनेर सबै जना खुसी भए।  विद्यालयले वैशाख १५ देखि कक्षा हुने सूचना पठाएकाे थियाे ।  त्यतिबेला काेराेना फैलिएकाे थिएन तर त्रास चाहिँ धेरै थियाे । धरै मानिसहरू गाउँतिर लागेका थिए । हामी पनि आफ्नाे गाउँ  रौतहट गयौँ । गाउँ पुगेपछि  धेरै रमाइलो भयो। काेराना सङ्क्रमित बढ्दै गएका थियाे । लकडाउन पनि थपिँदै थियाे । जताततै सुनसान थियाे । विद्यालय खाेल्ने परिस्थिति नदेखिएपछि हाम्राे विद्यालयले पनि अनलाइन कक्षा सञ्चालन गर्‍यो । वैशाख १५ गतेदेखि हाम्रो अनलाइन क्लास सुरु भयो । सुरुमा त अनलाइन कक्षा पनि रमाइलाे लागेकाे थियाे तर ती कक्षामा इन्टरनेटका कारण धेरै समस्या देखिएपछि विद्यालयमा नै गएर सिक्न पाए हुन्थ्याे भन्ने लाग्याे ।  मेराे  गाउँमा  नेटको समस्या धेरै थियो। कहिले बत्ती  बत्ती नै  आउँदैन थियो । यस्तो भएको भएर मैले राम्रोसँग कक्षा  लिन पाइनँ। गाउँमा भएको भएर मलाई त्यति  कर्फ्यु र लकडाउनमा  बसेकोजस्तो भएन । गाउँघरतिर कसैलाई पनि मतलव नहुँदो रहेछ । यसरी नै वैशाख बित्यो, जेठ, असार, साउन बिते । प्रथम चाैमासिक परीक्षा पनि अनलाइनबाटै सम्पन्न भयाे ।  लकडाउन खुल्ला र विद्यालय जान पाइएला भन्ने आशा गर्दागर्दै लकडाउनकाे समय थपिँदै जाँदा हाम्राे आशा निराशामा परिणत हुँदै गयाे । काेराेना लाग्ने र काेराेनाका कारण मृत्यु हुनेकाे सङ्ख्या पनि बढ्दै गएकाे थियाे ।  दसैँतिहार पनि बिते तर दसैँ तिहार पहिलेजस्ताे रमाइलाे पनि भएन । इन्टरनेट त्यति राम्राे नभएकाे कारण मैले अनलाइन कक्षा पनि  राम्रोसँग लिन पाएकी थिइनँ । त्यसैले हामी काठमाडाैँ जाने निर्णय ग‍र्‍याैँ । त्यतिबेलासम्म खाेप पनि आउन थालेकाे थियाे । नेपालमा काेराेना सङ्क्रमित पनि घटेका थिए ।   त्यसैले हाम्राे विद्यालय पनि खुल्ने भयाे ।

झन्डै नै ८,९ महिनापछि हामी स्कुल जान पायाैँ । विस्तारै अवस्था सामान्य हुन थाल्याे । हामी विद्यालय आएर पढ्न र खेल्न थाल्याैँ । दिनहरू रमाइला हुन थाले । शान्त अवस्थामा नै परीक्षा पनि दियाैँ । फेरि पनि  देश विदेशमा काेराेनाले नयाँ रूप लिएका समाचारहरू आएका छन् । छिमेकी देश भारतमा फेरि काेराेनाले तहसनहस बनाएकाे छ । मान्छेहरू पनि मरेका  छन् । नेपालमा पनि काेराेनाका बिरामी दिनप्रतिदिन बढेका छन् । फेरि पनि अवस्था नाजुक बनेकाे छ । अबका दिनहरू कसरी बित्ने हुन् केही थाहा छैन । त्यसैले अब आउने परिस्थिति के हुने हाे भन्ने चिन्ता लागेकाे छ ।