Once there lived a king who had a huge kingdom. The kingdom was super wealthy and the wealthiest was the king of course. The king was a brave one. He had gone to many fights and won them all. It felt like no one could defeat him. His strength was his mind, braveness. Since he was really smart and also had many smart people to work under his supervision. He even became stronger. But there was one thing that was bothering him a lot. That was the peace of the land of the neighbouring kingdom. The land was close to his kingdom. And he wanted that land. One day one of his informers came to him and talked about the fight that would happen within the two neighbouring kingdoms. Then the king decided to visit one of the great advisors of all time. He sent his soldiers to bring the advisor to the palace. The soldiers set off to bring the king’s advisor to the palace. The soldiers went to the king’s advisor and asked him to come with them. The king’s advisor agreed and came to the palace with the soldiers. He stood in front of the king. And kindly asked him why he was called here. The king told him about the situation and also told him how badly he wanted that piece of land since it is very close to the neighbouring kingdom so he can attack the kingdom and take over the kingdom. And told him when it was okay to attack the land. King’s advisor said, “We have to wait until the fight starts then attack when the fight is still going”. Since, till today he always listened to the advisor he decided to stick with the advisor’s plan. The next day the king started to prepare his soldiers for the upcoming fight. Then on the other hand the two kingdoms started to fight. And at night he decided to start a fight with the neighbouring kingdom. Then there was a war between his kingdom and the other kingdom. But the king defeated his neighbouring kingdom and took that land. But he thought why not defeat the whole kingdom? After that, he went for a fight with another kingdom and joined the war. Now, it was not a war within the two kingdoms but a war within three kingdoms. The war went on for 2 weeks. At this point, everyone was losing the war but the king was strong, and intelligent. He used his fighting skills very well and defeated the war. And the kingdom was the king’s now. King was really glad to have a soldier that would sacrifice themselves for the king. The king decided to reward the soldier and his family with lots of wealth. Since the soldier builds a high level of trust in front of the king. The king trusted the soldier and decided to give him the next heir in his kingdom. Also his advisor said to the king that the kingdom was in good hands. After 10 years he gave his position to the soldier who became the king of the kingdom. And after two days the old king died peacefully.
नेपालको एक मात्र राजधानी काठमाडौँ, दैनिक २४ घण्टा अन्तर्राष्ट्रिय उडान हुने एक मात्र सहर। वर्षभरि धुलोले ढाकेको सहर पाँच दिनको त्यो पर्व राति रङ्गीन बत्ती र आकाशमा आतिशबाजीले भरिन्छ । अनि पक्कै पनि त्यो चाड तिहार हो । काठमाडौँ सहर ५ हजार वर्ष पुरानो हो जसको उत्पत्ति निकै विवादास्पद छ । काठमाडौँको उत्पत्तिको पछाडि धेरै सिद्धान्तहरू छन्। काठमाडौँ मूलतः ताल थियो भन्ने कुरा वैज्ञानिकले पनि प्रमाणित गरिसकेका छन् तर ताल कसरी सुकाइयो भन्नेमा धेरै तर्कहरू आउँछन् ।
सबैभन्दा पहिले सबैकाे लोकप्रिय सिद्धान्त हाे, मञ्जुश्री सिद्धान्त । त्यो सिद्धान्तमा मञ्जुश्री एक बौद्ध भिक्षु हुन् । उनी तिब्बतबाट आएका थिए । उनले तालमा ठुलो कमलको फूल देखेका कारण उनी तालको नजिक आएका थिए । तालको नाम “नागदह” थियो । जमिन बस्ती बस्न याेग्य भएको देखेपछि उसले आफ्नो ज्वलन्त तरवारले पहाडलाई काटे र पानीलाई सबै
बगाएर मानिस बाँच्नको लागि उपयुक्त बनाए । अर्को सिद्धान्त छ कि भगवान कृष्णले सुदर्शन चक्रले कोबरको पहाड काटेका थिए र काठमाडाैँकाे पानी सुकाएका थिए । यसरी काठमाडाैँकाे उत्पत्तिका विषयमा विभिन्न किंवदन्तीहरू पाइन्छन् ।
Trust is the invisible rope connecting or binding us with other people. People who trust each other often learn to get comfortable with anyone. This can be extremely beneficial for our social life. When we learn to trust each other. We learn to socialise with others this will help us in the long run. If we don’t learn to socialise with others it will cause isolation. This can lead to various other problems in life.
Trusting someone is a risky move. It can be a good or bad decision. Trust is something that can easily be broken. No rule states that you can break someone's trust. The decision is all yours to break or keep. Trusting someone can be beneficial or harmful. Some people trust others very easily but some people don't trust others. Trusting someone is like sharing your personal space or beliefs. Trust is building connections with others. With this connection will be honest and can rely on others. Trust establishes a mutual connection and it can add depth to your relationships with others.
There are various positive effects that trust brings to us. They are:
Strengthening bonds
Having a very good bond with multiple people can be very beneficial to us. Whenever we have a very strong bond with someone we can open our feelings to them. Strengthening our bond can also make other people support us. We can also rely on others as well. Not only this but strengthening our bonds can help us to improve ourselves by taking suggestions and giving suggestions.
Effective communication
As we will be trusting an individual. It will be easier for us to open up our emotions, thoughts, ideas and opinions without any fear of judgment. Without this constant fear, you will be free to express yourself. Lack of communication is the cause of depression and sadness. So, this can help the individual with their mental health.
Stress reduction
Many people might be suffering from depression or stress. This can be caused due to the lack of communication and socialization of an individual. When you talk about your problems openly to someone you might be a bit relieved from the pain. When you know that someone is reliable you can talk to them about your security concerns or anything you want. This will create a bond between you and another individual and that bond is very strong and that will help you in various aspects.
Support
Being supportive is one thing. But being supported is another. People might be supportive towards others but sometimes they do not think about themselves. When you have trust for someone they will openly support you. And due to this support, you can rely on them for any sort of help. In a truly supportive and trustworthy environment, the bond is strong and no one will try to take advantage of each other. Both individuals will be supportive of each other.
There are various ways of building trust among people like accountability, honesty, reliability, empathy and more. Taking accountability for your mistakes is very important. When we are accountable we are seen as a respectful individual. When we are more responsible we are seen as hard-working and dedicated individuals this can help make a good image of us in society. Honesty is also another key factor. When we are honest and respectful we are seen as very trustworthy and good-hearted people. We should not lie, we should take responsibility, we should be dedicated etc. to be considered as honest in the eyes of an individual or society. To be trustworthy we also need reliability. Whenever other people feel like we are reliable this will create an image that we are very hardworking, that we are honest and we are not dependent on others. You also need to understand other people. You are in your world. Without everyone all alone will not take you very far. That world will end very quickly.
The things mentioned above are a way of building trust. Now, trust has lots of downsides. If you trust the wrong individual you will be betrayed. There will be broken promises and conflict. When someone breaks your trust they will betray you. They will tell you your secrets. They will lose their commitment to you. They will be your immortal enemy. The hatred between you and the other individual will grow more and more and this will change into a conflict.
नेपालमा सातौँ कक्षामा पढ्दा
मेरा बाल्यकालका सम्झनाहरू धेरै छन्।
साथीहरूसँग खेतमा दौडने,
फेला पार्न नयाँ साहसिक खोज।
हामी घाममा हाँस्यौँ र खेल्यौँ,
ख्याल नगरी एकअर्कालाई पछ्याउँदै।
हावा हाम्रो कपालबाट उड्यो,
जसरी हामीले जताततै प्रकृतिको अन्वेषण गर्याैँ।
हामी आफ्नो सबै शक्तिसँग रुख चढ्यौँ,
हाम्रो विशेष लुकाउने ठाउँमा ह्याङ्ग आउट गर्दै।
त्यहाँ हामीले गोप्य कुरा बतायौंँ र योजनाहरू बनायौँ,
ती लामो र अल्छी गर्मी दिनहरूमा।
तर स्कुल सधैँ जीवनको एक हिस्सा थियो,
नयाँ चुनौतिहरू सामना गर्न ल्याउनुथियाे।
हामीले कडा अध्ययन र सँगै काम गर्यौँ,
हाम्रा आमाबाबुलाई गर्व र हेरचाह गर्ने आशा।
यो सधैँ सजिलो र रमाइलो थिएन,
तर हामीले धेरै सिक्यौँ र अगाडि बढ्यौँ।
हाम्रा बाल्यकालका सम्झनाहरू हामीसँगै रहने छन्,
जसरी हामी प्रत्येक पलको कदर गर्छौँ, नयाँ।
त्यसैले यहाँकाे नेपाल र यो अद्भुत समय महान हो,
हाम्रो बाल्यकालको सम्झनाहरूलाई धेरै प्यारो।
तिनीहरू हाम्रो हृदय र दिमागमा सधैँभरि बाँचून्,
एक समयको सम्झना जुन धेरै स्पष्ट थियो।
My soft pillow,
When I meet and rest my head,
Your softness makes me happy,
Like a little child.
My sweetness is always with you,
When I put my head on you,
You are so smooth, my pillow,
When I’ve cried all day.
You make me dream sweet dreams,
My little pillow,
When I need something soft,
I go and lay in my loft.
Makes my head heavy to soft,
While sleeping in my loft,
My soft pillow I can’t sleep without you,
So I'm always going to be with you.
This is the best thing I’ve got,
My pillow I love you a lot,
My soft pillow,
When I meet and rest my head.
"किन रोएकी छोरी ? के भयो ?" आमाले मलाई सोध्नुभयो ।
आँखामा भएका आँसु पुछ्दै मैले भने, "हैन आमा, केही भएको छैन । आँखामा धुलो पसेको मात्र हो।
केही नभएको जस्तो गरे पनि मनमा मलाई थाहा थियो धेरै कुरा बिग्रेको थियो।
नेपालको राजधानी काठमाडौंमा बसेकी थिएँ म। कक्षा १० मा अध्ययनरत सबै व्यक्ति जस्तै मेरो हातमा मोबाइल र इन्टरनेट थियो । मोबाइल पाएपछि साथीहरूले भनेजस्तै मैले एउटा इन्स्टाग्राम अकाउण्ट खोलेँ । साथीहरूले भने झैँ नै मैले आमा र बुबाबाट यो कुरो लुकाए ।
अकाउण्ट बनाएको तीन महिनासम्म सबै कुरा राम्ररी चलिरह्यो तर मनमा एउटामात्र आवाज गुन्जिरहन्थ्यो, “आमा र बुबालाई नभनेर के सही काम गरे मैले ?"
तीन महिनापछि मलाई एउटा अकाउण्टबाट मेसेज आयो । मेसेज हेर्दा हाइ भनेर लेखिएको थियो । यस्तो अब अवस्थामा के गर्ने भन्ने थाहा नभएर मैले विद्यालयमा मेरो साथीलाई सोधेँ, "हेर न ! मलाई त एउटा नचिनेको मान्छेले मेसेज गर्याे। म के गर्नु ? आमा बुबालाई भनुम् ?"
हुँदैन ! तिम्रो आमा बुबालाई यसको बारेमा नभन अहिले नै। पछि बेला भएपछि म भन्छु। अहिले चाहिँ त्यो मेसेजको रिप्लाई देऊ। नयाँ साथी यसै गरी बनाइन्छ।"
साथीले भनेपछि होला नि भनेर मैले त्यो मेसेजको रिप्लाई दिएँ । बिस्तारै त्यस व्यक्तिको मेरो बोलचाल सुरू भयो । हरेक दिनदेखि प्रातमा आँखा खोलेदेखि म कुरा गर्थेँ ऊसँग। कुरा नगर्ने भनेको विद्यालयमा हुँदा मात्र थियो। कुरा गर्दा गर्दै मैले मेरो जीवनबारे हरेक कुरा उसलाई सुनाउन थालेँ ।
बोलेको ४ महिना हुन लागेको समयदेखि भने उसले अलि भिन्न किसिमको व्यवहार देखाउन थाल्यो । मैले त्यस समयमा त्यस्तो सोचिन तर यसको १ हप्तापपछि मलाई उसले धम्काउन थाल्यो । कुरा यसरी सुरु भयो:
"तिम्रो आमा र बुबालाई तिम्रो अकाउण्टको बारेमा थाहा छैन हैन ?"
"अहँ छैन । किन र ?"
"तिम्रा आमा र बुबालाई मैले यसको बारेमा भने के होला ?"
"किन र ? मेरा आमा बुबालाई किन भन्ने ?"
"कि । मैले भनेको मान्छौ अनि म भन्दिन ।"
"हुन्छ । के गर्नु मैले ?"
"मलाई तिम्रो घर नजिकैको पार्कमा ५०० रुपियाँ ल्याइदेऊ।""
" कसरी ?"
"त्यो मलाई थाहा छैन । ठ्याक्कै १:०० बजे त्यहाँ लिएर आऊ।"
मैले त्यसपछि केही भनिन तर डरका कारण मैले बुबाको खल्तिबाट पैसा झिकेर उसलाई पैसा दिएँ । यो त सानो कुरा थियो र सक्यो । बिस्तारै उसको माग बढ्दै गयो । आमा बुबालाई झुट बोलेर यस्तो काम गर्नुभन्दा बरू आफैँ कुरा भन्ने भनेर मैले सोचेकी थिएँ । यो कुरा मैले मेरी साथीलाई पनि सुनाएँ । उसले भने भनी-"तिम्रो आमा बुबालाई भन्यौ भने झन् गार्हो हुन्छ तिमीलाई नै । त्यसको माथि कति पैसा लगिसक्यौ तिमीले । म त तिम्रो ठाउँमा भएको भए दिने थिइन । उसको कुरा सुनेर मैले आमा बुबालाई भनिन् र उसले भने जस्तै गरे।
१ महिना त्यसरी नै बित्यो । त्यो समयमा मैले धेरै नै भयो भनेर उसलाई त्यस दिन भेटेर भने, "मलाई पुग्यो। अब म तिमीले भने जस्तो नगर्ने।" यो कुरा सुनेर उसले भन्यो-"नगर्ने भए यति कुरा बुझकी म तिमीलाई राम्ररी बाँच्नै दिने छैन।"
उसको कुरा सुने तर मैले केही प्रतिक्रिया दिइन । मैले पछि मात्र थाहा पाए कि उसले सामाजिक सञ्जालमा मेरो बारेमा नराम्रो कुरा भनेछ। विद्यालयमा सबैले मलाई गिज्याउन थाले तर मैले यसको बारेमा आमा र बुबा कसैलाई भनिन । अन्त्यमा मैले सबै कुरा सहन नसक्ने नै भए ।
बिदाको दिन थियो । सबैजना घरमै थियौँ । आमालाई हेर्दा हेर्दै मेरो आँखाबाट दुई थोपा आँसु खसे । आमाले देख्नुभएछ। "किन रोएकी छोरी ? के भयो ?" आमाले मलाई सोध्नुभयो ।
आँखामा भएका आँसु पुछ्दै मैले भने, "हैन आमा, केही भएको छैन । आँखामा धुलो पसेको मात्र हो ।
मनमा राखेको पीडा सहन नसकेर म माथि कोठामा गएँ । त्यहाँ मैले आत्महत्या गरेँ । त्यसरी सामाजिक सञ्जालमा घटेको घटनाले ज्यान गुमाउन पर्याे मैले । आमा र बुबाका बगेका आँसुका र मैले भोगेको पीडाको दोषी थियो जम्मा एकजना तर अहिलेसम्म न्यायको कठघरामा ल्याइएको छैन उसलाई । के मेरो न्याय पाउने आशा आशै बनेर रहने हाे त ?
The story of the Menendez brothers has shocked the world about how children can kill their own parents. The two brothers Lyle and Erick Menendez stated that they killed their parents out of fear and their father would kill them after they threatened to report him to the authorities for the case of sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, this year this case was again brought in. After many years of sexual abuse Lyle had enough and warned to report them. But his father decided to beat him up that very night. In 1989 when they made the decision to kill their parents. With a Mossberg 12-gauge shotgun. Kitty(mom) was shot 10 times in total.
Here are some of my thoughts. I feel like the brothers just did self defence because their father has been torturing them for years. One of the interviews really caught my eye when a man said that their father will get in the shower with them even though they were 12 and 14 years old and not only that when he was staying at there house he always saw that going into the boys room at night he found it weird but didn't report it from the interviews that the brothers did Lyle said that he thought that his mother didn't know about this but one night when he walk down the stairs when his father sexually assaulting his brother upstairs his mom was on the couch with bottle of beer drinking and she said “You thought I didn't know about this I knew this all alone and I Don't really care at that point he said that he saw his mother and his father on the same level.”
The cousin of Lyle and Erik Menendez, says she has no doubt the brothers' parents sexually abused them. Many people are against the authorities putting them in jail because they did nothing wrong. Are the Menendez brothers really guilty?
निन्द्रा नलागेको रात , अनगिन्ती आँसुको माध्यमबाट
उहाँ सान्त्वना दिन, हाम्रो डर कम गर्न त्यहाँ हुनुहुन्छ
उनको मुस्कान, उज्यालो घामको किरण
हामीलाई अँध्यारो र उज्यालो दुबैबाट मार्गनिर्देशन गर्दै।
उनी बलिदान दिन्छिन्, उनी निस्वार्थ रूपमा दिन्छिन्
आफ्ना सन्तानको खुसीको लागि सधैँ जिउने गर्छिन्
उसको माया, कहिल्यै नमर्ने ज्वाला
हाम्रो जीवनमा शक्तिको निरन्तर स्रोत ।
उहाँले हामीलाई सही गलत सिकाउनुहुन्छ
हामीलाई बलियो बनाउने मूल्यहरू स्थापित गर्दै
उनको समर्थन, अटल र सत्य
आँधीमा आश्रय, बढेको माया ।
उनका बुद्धिका शब्दहरू, सदाको लागि कुँदिएका छन्
हाम्रो हृदयमा, जहाँ उनको माया सुरक्षित छ
आमाको माया, टुट्न नसकिने बन्धन
कल्पना गर्न नसकिने कुनै पनि खजाना।
त्यसैले कदर गरौँ , पूजा गरौँ
हामीलाई सधैँभरि माया गर्ने
उनको काखमा, हामी सान्त्वना र आनन्द पाउँछौँ
आमाको माया, एक पवित्र चुम्बन।
The horror is in the dark,
Where the shadows dance and the wind whispers.
It is in the silence,
Where the creaking of a door is a scream.
It is in the unknown,
Where the things that go bump in the night are real.
The horror is in the mind,
Where the fears take hold.
It is in the heart,
Where the nightmares come to life.
It is in the soul,
Where the darkness resides.
The horror is all around us,
Waiting to strike.
It is in the shadows,
The silence,
The unknown.
It is in our minds,
Our hearts,
Our souls.
The horror is real waiting for you.
And it is coming for you.
उच्च स्तरको क्यालोरी सामfग्री र सन्तृप्त फ्याट भएका कुनै पनि प्रकारका खाद्य वस्तुहरूलाई जङ्क फुड भनिन्छ। तिनीहरू मानव शरीरका लागि अस्वस्थ खाना हुन् र हाम्रो शरीरका लागि त्यसकाे मूल्य पाेषणकाे रूपमा कम छ। धेरै जसो रेस्टुरेन्टका खानाहरू र फास्ट फुडहरू अत्यधिक प्रशोधित हुन्छन् र तिनलाइ प्रायः जङ्कको रूपमा लिइन्छ। यसकाे नियमित रूपमा उपभोग गर्ने पुस्ता युवा पुस्ता रहेकाे र त्यस पुस्ता माझमा यसले लोकप्रियता हासिल गरेको छ। फास्टफुड रेस्टुरेन्ट र स्ट्रीट फुडको बढ्दो प्रचलनले आजको युवा पुस्ता बाहिरको खानेकुराको लतमा फसेको छ र उनीहरू प्रायः जङ्क फूडहरूमा निर्भर छन् । यस आधुनिक समाजमा एक नयाँ प्रवृत्ति बनेको छ। साथै, केएफसी, पिज्जा हट, डोमिनोज र म्याकडोनाल्ड जस्ता विभिन्न खाद्य ब्रान्डहरूको बजारीकरणले युवाहरूलाई यस्ता खाद्य वस्तुहरू खान आकर्षित गरेको छ। यी वस्तुहरू स्वादिलो भएपनि हाम्रो शरीरका लागि स्वस्थकर मानिदैनन् । तिनीहरूको उच्च स्तरको प्रोटिन, चिनी र सन्तृप्त फ्याटको साथ, तिनीहरूले हाम्रो शरीरमा कोलेस्ट्रोलको स्तर बढाउँछ । तिनीहरूले प्रतिरक्षा प्रणालीको लागि आवश्यक पोषण मूल्यहरू प्रदान गर्न योगदान गर्दैनन् र आवश्यक भिटामिन र खनिजहरूको अभाव पनि देखिएकाे छ। दैनिक जीवनको व्यस्तताको कारणले गर्दा हामी प्रायः बाहिरबाट खाना मगाएर वा हाम्राे भाेक मेटाउन केही चपाउन रुचाउँछौँ । जसकाे कारण, यसले हाम्रो जीवनमा अस्वस्थकर खाना खाेने लत बढाएको छ। हामी प्रायः हाम्रो स्वादलाई सन्तुष्ट पार्ने र कम समय खपत गर्ने खाना खानको आनन्द लिन्छौँ । यी जङ्क फुडहरू आजकल हाम्रो फोनमार्फत् एक क्लिकको साथ सजिलै पाइने भएकोले, हामी ती मध्ये धेरै खाने बानीमा छाैँ तर हामीले यो याद राख्नुपर्छ कि यसले हाम्रो शरीरमा पछि हानी पुर्याउँछ र हाम्राे शरीरमा धेरै स्वास्थ्य समस्याहरू जन्माउँछ।
प्रतिवेदनकाअनुसार जङ्क फुडको नियमित सेवनका कारण मोटोपनका बिरामीको सङ्ख्या बढेको पाइएकाे छ। जसका कारण हामीलाइ गम्भीर राेगसमेत लाग्ने गरेकाे छ जसमा हृदय रोग, मोटोपनाको उच्च जोखिम, महिलाहरूमा PCOD/PCOS र हाम्रो शरीर र मानसिक स्वास्थ्यमा ठुलो प्रभाव पार्ने अन्य धेरै पुरानो रोगहरू पर्दछन् । मोटोपना र मुटु रोगको जोखिम आजको प्रमुख चिन्ताको विषय बनेको हुनाले जङ्क फुड र चिनीयुक्त वस्तुको सेवनबाट टाढा रहनुपर्छ । उच्च प्रशोधित खाद्य वस्तुहरूलाई हरियो सलाद र फलफूलले प्रतिस्थापन गर्नाले हाम्रो शरीरलाइ उच्च कोलेस्ट्रोलको जोखिमबाट कम गर्न सकिन्छ । हामीले कहिलेकाहीँ जङ्क फुड उपभोग गर्न सक्छौँ, तर खपत गरिएको क्यालोरीहरू जलाउनका लागि केही शारीरिक गतिविधिहरूकाे भने पालन गर्नुपर्छ।
निष्कर्षमा, एक व्यक्तिको स्वास्थ्य उनीहरूको जीवनको एक महत्त्वपूर्ण भाग हो र यसको ख्याल राख्नुपर्छ। तसर्थ, यी अत्यधिक प्रशोधित जङ्क फूडहरूमा भर पर्नुको सट्टा स्वस्थ खानाको बानी बसाल्नु आवश्यक छ।
As proven by many cases of suicide and depressed victims, there have been a lot of people suffering from issues regarding their mental health. So, first of all, let us be clear on what mental health is. Mental health is the state of someone's mind that causes them to react differently to situations. It is not something that you should be seeing as something to be ashamed of, but rather a part of everyone that can change.
A positive mindset is very helpful and especially needed nowadays by many individuals. It is very important to have, as if you cannot think positively, neither can you act positively or deal with situations. The mood of one person can spread to another, so we always need to act cheerfully and lead others to join in.
When people need help mentally, they feel as if it is not okay or unnecessary, but that should be the last thing you do when the situation arises. We all need to learn to open up to others about our feelings rather than regretting them or living with the pain. There are many simple and easy ways to feel better, such as talking to someone who you are close to or someone like your best friend, participating in your favourite activities, trying to think positively, going on short walks, and getting enough rest.
If you follow all these steps and still do not feel better or feel like it is getting too serious, you should consult a professional, as they can understand you and can help a lot. You should never think twice if the situation comes, and the last thing you should not be worried about is that people will tease you or call you a “mental freak” because there will always be someone who might not support you, but the ones who do easily outnumber the ones who do not.
In conclusion, taking care of your mind is something that you should focus on by taking care of your body and seeking help when needed. This is very useful, as it helps you adapt to a healthier lifestyle no matter the situation. And remember, you are never alone, as there will always be someone out there to help you.
१२ कक्षाको जाँच भर्खरै दिएर बसेको दिपेशको धेरै पैसा कमाएर छिटै धनी बन्ने सपना थियो । उसले कम समय र कम मेहनतमा नै धनी बन्ने सपना बोकेको थियो । ऊ काम खोज्न धेरै ठाऊ गयो । आफ्नो पढाइ र अनुभव नभएको कारण्ले गर्दा उसले कुनै ठाउमा काम पाइरहेको थिएन। केही नभएपछि उसले अनलाइन काम खोज्ने फैसला गर्याे।
उसले विभिन्न कामहरूको लागि विज्ञापन देख्यो तर ती काम गर्न धेरै मेहनत गर्नुपर्थ्यो त कतै उमेर पुग्दैन थियो । धेरै समयसम्म खोज्दा पनि कसैले उसलाई काम नदिँदा तथा उसले काम नपाउँदा दिपेशलाई उसको सपना पूरा नहुने भावना मनमा आयो । त्यतिमा एउटा कम्पनीले उसलाई एउटा जब अफर गर्याे । त्यो अफर देख्दा दिपेश धेरै खुसी भयो र त्यति बेलामा नै उसको मोबाइलमा मेसेज आयो । उसले मेसेज हेर्याे, त्यो मेसेजमा कामको बारेमा लेखिएको थियो । दिपेशले मेसेज पढ्यो र कामबाट पाउने तलब देख्दा उसको मन लोभ्यायो । केही बेरपछि उसको मोबाइलमा फोन आयो। " तपाईँले कामको बारेमा मेसेज पाउनुभयो ?" कसैले सोध्यो । दिपेशले पाएँ भनेर जवाफ दियो । फेरि त्यही मान्छेले सोध्यो "तपाई यो काम गर्न सक्नुहुन्छ ?"। दिपेशको मनमा पैसा कमाउने लोभ थियो र उसले पनि सक्छु भन्यो । फोनमा कसैले बोल्यो, "त्यसो भए हामीलाई तपाईको डिटेल पठाइदिनु। " दिपेशले त्यो सुनेपछि केही नसोची आफ्नो बारेमा त्यो मान्छेलाई मेसेज गर्याे । दिपेशलाई मेसेज आयो, त्यसमा उसलाई केही दिन कुर्नको लागि भनेर लेखिएको थियो । छिटै पैसा कमाउने लोभमा उसले केही नसोची काम गरिरहेको थियो ।
अर्को दिन त्यही मान्छेले फोन गर्याे र भन्यो, "तपाइलाई हामीले काम दिन सक्छौँ तर पहिले यो कामको बारेमा जान्न र सिक्न प्रशिक्षण चाहिन्छ। त्यसको लागि तपाईले १० हजार तिर्नु पर्छ । दिपेशले केही बेर सोच्यो कि अहिले १० हजार तिरेर पछि त्योभन्दा धेरै पैसा कमाउन सकिन्छ र त्यो मान्छेलाई छिटै १० हजार रुपैयाँ पठायो । अघिल्लो दिन झैँ त्यो मान्छेले केही दिन पर्खन भन्यो ।
त्यस दिन दिपेश आफ्नो पुरानो साथी विनयलाई भेट्न गयो । उनीहरू एउटा क्याफे भित्र गए र कुरा गर्न थाले । विनयले पनि त्यति बेला साइबर अपराधकाे कुरा गर्याे, उसले भन्यो, "केहि दिन अघि मलाई एउटा फोन आएको थियो। मैले लटरी जिते भनेर। " दिपेश यस्ताे सुनेर छक्क पर्याे र सोध्यो, "तिमीले के गर्याैँ त?" विनयले जवाफ दियो, "के गर्नु र? मेरो बैंक डिटेल मागिरहेको थियो तर मैले दिइन, आजकल यस्तै फेक आइडीबाट फोन आउछ।" "फेक आइडी?" दिपेशले सोध्यो। "अँ मान्छेहरू अहिले हामीलाई फोन वा मेसेज गरेर आफ्नो बारेमा भन्न लगाउँछन् वस पैसा लिन्छन्, हाम्रो बैँकको बारेमा जान्न खोज्छन् र यस्तै अनेकौ तरिकाले हामीबाट पैसा लिन्छन् वा हाम्रो अकाउन्ट ह्याक गरेर हाम्रो बारेमा विभिन्न कुराहरू भेट्टाउछन्।" दिपेश त्यो कुरा सुनेर चिन्तामा पर्याे । उसलाई साइबर अपराधको बारेमा त थाहा थियो तर पैसाको लोभमा उसले सोच्दै नसोची कोही मान्छेलाई पैसा अनलाइन बाट दिएको थियाे । केही बेर कुराकानी गरेपछि दुबै आ-आफ्नै बाटो लागे।
दिपेश आत्तिएर घर फर्क्याे । दिपेशले हत्तारमा उसलाई फोन गरेको नम्बरमा फोन गर्याे तर त्यो फोन उठेन । दिपेशलाई धेरै चिन्ता हुन थाल्यो तर पनि उसले फोन आउने आशमा पर्ख्यो। दुई दिन हुँदा पनि फोन आएन र दिपेशलाई धेरै चिन्ता हुन थाल्यो । फोन नं आएपछि दिपेशले पुलिसलाई त्यसबारे खबर गर्याे र पुलिसले पनि त्यस विषयमा हेरे र केही दिनपछि दिपेशले उसको पैसा फिर्ता पायो । अनलाइन अपराध गरेको मानिस पनि पक्राउ भयो।
अनलाइन भेट्टिने सबै कुराको विश्वास गर्नुहुँदैन, आफ्नो बारेमा वा पासवर्ड कसैलाई भन्नु हुँदैन र कसैमाथि विश्वास गरेर अनलाइन पैसा दिनुहुँदैन भन्ने कुरा दिपेशले त्यस घटनादेखि बुझ्यो।
