एक सुस्त दिन बनाउन पलहरू टाँस्दै
लापरवाह तरिकामा घण्टा बर्बाद गर्दै
आफ्नो घर जमिनको टुक्रामा लात हान्दै
बाटो देखाउने कसैलाई वा केहीलाई पर्खदै
घाममा सुतेर थकित भए पनि वा घरमै बसेर सुते पनि
तिम्रो जीवन लामो छ र आज मार्ने समय छ
अनि एक दिन एक्कासी दश वर्ष पछाडि पर्छ
कहिले दौडने भनेर कसैले भनेनन्
सुरु गर्ने बन्दुक छुट्टियो
तिमी दौडिन्छौ र घामलाई समात्न खोज्छौ
तर यो डुबिसकेको हुन्छ
तिम्रो पछाडि फेरि आउन वरपर दौडमा
घाम त उस्तै छ तर तिमी बूढो छौ
सास छोटो र एक दिन मृत्युको नजिक
प्रत्येक बितेको वर्षमा दौड
समय कहिल्यै नहुने
अधुरा योजनाहरू अनकथित स्क्रिबलहरू
समयको अथक पकड बूढो हुँदै गयो
हरेक वर्ष छोटो हुँदै गइरहेको छ
समय कहिल्यै फेला परेन
योजनाहरू जुन शून्यमा आउँछन्
शान्त निराशामा झुन्डिएर
समय त बितिसक्यो के अझै केही भन्न्र पर्ला र !
Introduction
In the grand journey of understanding the world, we commonly experience two different paths: science and spirituality. Science relies on experiments and observations, and searches for tangible aspects of the real world. Spirituality includes the recognition of a feeling or belief that there is something greater than ourselves, which guides us through our life and includes a sense of connection that goes beyond what we can see and touch. Despite their contrasting differences, when these paths come together it forms an abundant understanding of our existence.
To go deeper into the topic, the difference between spirituality and religion needs to be recognized. Spirituality and religion are two very different concepts, religion usually focuses on worshiping a certain deity or following certain rules or rituals whilst spirituality is about exploring your own connection and believing that there is something greater than ourselves, something more to being human than only living, broader significance of life. And that everything is divine in nature and we are a part of the greater whole.
Science of spirituality
Moreover, science can be compared to a detective who is always driven by curiosity and an insatiable desire to acquire knowledge. For instance the Hubble Space Telescopeᅳa tool that allows scientists to delve into the mysteries of outer space and unravel astonishing discoveries about our vast universe. The amazing images that this camera captures, not only grows our knowledge but also evokes a profound sense of wonder and connection within us which is known to be magical. The common guard between spirituality and science is that both are concerned with understanding the fundamental nature of the universe and our place within it.
Spirituality is belief while science is the proof of the same thing. When these two concepts combine together it forms a greater understanding of the fundamental nature of the universe. Scientists use different tools and experiments to study those things that we can observe, measure and understand. Objects like telescopes, microscopes allow them to see tiny things in large galaxies. This helps them to know the world in a better way. On the other hand, spirituality observes the parts of life that are not measurable, visible or tangible. It explores feelings, beliefs and experiences that are beyond what we see with our naked eyes.
While doing all the experiments, science and spirituality meet in the middle, quantum physics can be considered an example. This is a branch of science that studies things on a tiny scale, and its findings can seem to be a bit unbelievable and even spiritual sometimes. This makes scientists, spiritualists and common people ask big questions about the reality of nature, existence of life and overly opens doors to discussions including both scientific and spiritual perspective.
Why should Spirituality and science work together?
In order to understand why science and spiritualist collaboration can be beneficial, it is necessary to know that bringing together science and spirituality allows a more holistic (comprehensive) understanding of the world. In various aspects of life, findings of science and spirituality commonly offer a wealth of possibilities of understanding the world and fostering a more harmonious way of living. It resembles a world where people are mentally and physically well. Science focuses on how certain things work and what are those where spiritualists focus on why and delves to find deeper meanings.
Science helps us with our physical health by medicines or treatments they discover everyday that eventually makes our body better. It shows that our thoughts and feelings can affect our physical health. Whereas spirituality focuses on making our minds and emotions healthier. It helps us with things like peace, gratitude, and kindness. It also says that when we think positively and feel connected to something meaningful, it can actually make our bodies healthier. Collaboration of these two different but similar concepts can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life, it can lead to innovative solutions and a deeper appreciation of complexity of existence.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, recognizing the common goal of spirituality and science, ‘understanding the universe and our place on it’ stimulates unity. When both subjects are viewed complimentary rather than conflicting, can create a more inclusive worldview and delivers a roadmap to the existence of the world. By recognizing their unique contributions, we need to find a way for them to work together, which would unlock more possibilities and more knowledge of life mysteries. People can be physically and mentally stable and have a balanced and happy life. In this harmony, science and spirituality become tools for personal growth, collective well-being, and a deeper connection with the world around us.
I am awaiting the sunrise
I watch the dawn with longing eyes.
Yet when it comes, deceit unfolds
Deceptive warmth, a fleeting veil
Frozen, I stand in the falling rain
A motionless soul in nature's parade
Your voice, a distant echo near
As I tumble again, drowning in fear
Devotion escapes, a fleeting ghost,
In the echoes of sadness, where darkness follows.
A whispered "I know" in the tear-stained night,
We walk into the darkness, chasing the fading light.
Together, we walked, into the night's embrace,
Must I bid you farewell, my heart's trace?
In the echoes of sadness, are you for me?
Or am I to remain under this moonlit sky?
घामसँग प्रश्न “हिजो किन गयौं ?”
आज आउने थियौ त।
घाम
हिजो रोएको थियौ थाहा छ ?
हिजो कहीँ ढिलो भएर केही गुमाएको थियौ ?
राम्रो गर आज पीडा हुने छैन, कुनै गल्ती हुने छैन
समस्यामा गरे सबै पाउँछौ केही गुमाउने छैनौ
भित्तासँग प्रश्न “किन मेटिदै छौ ?”
हिजोजस्तै चम्केको खै ?
भित्ता :
हिजो अडिदा मेरो भरमा थियौ थाहा छ
हिजो बामे सर्दा हत्तले मलाई सुम्सुम्याउँथ्यौ
हिजो खेल्दा कति ठोकियो
हिजो “क”,“ख” मलाई कोतार्दै सिकेको हौ
“म बुढी भए नि” एकदिन सकिने नै हो
हिजो बामे सर्दा म थिएँ
खुट्टामा उभिदा तान्ने
“परिश्रम गर्दा उपेक्षा लाग्ला “पोल्नु है ?”
तिमी खिइदा विशाल विगत बिर्सिएर
भबिष्यको कोजीमा हुने छौ
खोलासँग एउटा प्रश्न “अस्थिर किन”
गन्तव्य र उद्देश्य खै।
खोला:
हिजो यही माछा मार्थ्याै नि
हिजो कलिला हातले ठुलो खेलौना यही बनाएको थियौ
हिजो फलेको तिम्रो डुङगा आजै बगिरहेको होला
“मलाई अस्थिर बनाएर मेरो आस्थित्व नामेट्नु है। ”
आफूमा परिवर्तनमा ल्याऊ तर अस्तित्व् नगुमाउनू
“पाप पखाल्न मलाई नखोज है।” पाप जो नगर
मजस्तै तिमी सिर्जनशील हुनू ।
मानिसले आफ्नो जीवन शैली परिवर्तन गरी
आफूलाई सन्त भएको दाबी गर्दा
आफ्नो चाहना पूरा नभएको देखेर
भित्र लोभ व्याप्त हुँदाहुँदै पनि ।
धर्मले मानवतालाई जीवित राख्छ
लोभ र लालसा बर्बादीका कारक
लोभलाई अस्वीकार गर्नेहरू
नेतृत्वका हकदार हुनैपर्छ
यद्यपि जीवनको प्रक्रिया
निर्ममताको लागि मनाउन थाल्छ
तर लोभमा लिप्त भएमा
पीडामा परिणत हुने निश्चित छ ।
Late midnight, working in the office overtime with a project due tomorrow morning, Charlie, intern at a reputed institution was working under a male manager. After getting a degree she got her first internship. She was from an unprivileged background and a woman belonging to a lower ethnic community. Despite all this she was a hardworking and dedicated person.
As she was working alone in the office, she heard a weird sound from the cabin above. She decided to check. One step, another step likewise, she reached in front of the cabin's door. From outside the glass window, she saw an extremely appalling scene which gave her chills from inside. Her manager was abusing and harassing a clerk. She could not believe the sight and tried to go away due to the terror. She accidentally knocked some files and ran which made the manager alert and he caught sight of her. She felt guilty being a coward due to her own reasons. She packed her stuff and decided to complete the project at her apartment.
The very next day Charlie hesitated to go to the office but ended up going. Shockingly everything was normal. Even the clerk was also working normally. Few days passed, and she was assigned to do a new project with the mentor and the manager. She felt anxious. But everything went normal. The project completed and after a month the institution got profit and Charlie was made permanent at the institution. Her cabin was now near the manager's. Charlie was doing well in both professional and personal life. She had completely forgotten the incident.
The institution was invited to a business conference where the representatives of the institution were supposed to go. As Charlie was one of finest employee, she was selected to go to the gathering with the manager. They both went to the conference and represented their institution. But while returning to their respective homes, the manager invited her for a drive. As it was late, she, decided to go with him. She felt ok. But after a few moments she felt uncomfortable as the manager took the route from the forest. As time escalated, she felt being touched by the manager. She couldn’t even react and felt numb. She couldn’t fight back and felt unconscious. Later, Charlie was found by a woman in bad condition: blood all over and wounds at her body, and half dressed. She was basically raped by her manager and thrown near a bush of the forest. Charlie was admitted to the hospital. She was bed rested and was helped by the nurse to overcome mental instability, the trauma. Charlie was facing wide range of emotions which include fear, shame, anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, and a sense of impotent.
She felt that it was her fault to trust a harasser. She felt more depressed that she could not even take any action due to her family situation.
Lastly, causing her to leave a note “Why am I the one?” and jumped off the hospitals top floor. Her body went down, but the soul went up.
Nepal, a country that lies in the laps of the Himalayas is a multilingual, multicultural, multi religious nation. The natural beauty of Nepal is mesmerizing and awful. The mixture of the ecological regions like The Himalayan, The Hilly, and The Terai gives a total canvas of the country. Gosaikunda, a beautiful range of Nepal lies in the Himalayan region and its natural beauty is beyond imagination. For this, it has many travel enticements and tourism prospects which I'll explore in this article.
‘Gosaikunda’ is made up of two words: Gosain and Kunda. ‘Gosain’ means the lord of senses and ‘Kunda’ means a serene lake. It is located in Rasuwa district. According to Hindu mythology, Gosaikunda is the holy lake where the almighty Lord Shiva meditated. It is still believed that Lord Shiva is sleeping inside the holy lake. Every year in the Janai Purnima, hundreds and thousands of Hindu people visit Gosaikunda and find themselves washed out of their sins.
So far about the physical features and the topology of this place, Gosaikunda is located at an altitude of 4380m. It isn't as easy as you think to go there. According to the locals of Gosaikunda, a person definitely dies every year while attempting to trek to Gosaikunda. They also say that the death of the person is the wish of the god. There is a high chance of catching altitude sickness there in Gosaikunda. The thin air and the clouds completely cover the place even in the summer season. The lake is completely frozen in the winter season and tourists visit there to skate too.
About my experience in Gosaikunda, I had fun. Though the journey wasn't so comfortable, I learned to compromise in the hard times. Hotels weren't so good up there, and the food wasn't so tasty but still I learned to accept what I had. Upon reaching there, I saw the secret of nature that I could never imagine. I felt as if I had reached a different world which was completely different and alien to me. When you reach there, you forget all your troubles in the trip. You forget the expense of your travel, you forget the cramps you had on your journey, and most significantly, you forget yourself in the lap of nature. The view was truly amazing and I realized that all the hard times and the painful experience in the trek journey was worth it. I sighed and stepped onto the lake to wash out all my sins as it is said. Though I went on summer days, the water literally froze my brain for some time. I felt freshened, and it was truly an amazing experience.
Overall, Gosaikunda is really a beautiful place, and it should be promoted more for uplifting eco-tourism in Nepal. I would like to draw special attention of the concerned personnel in Nepal Government to add some more facilities in this place so that the visitors would not have difficulties on their stay. Next, I would also like to request all the visitors not to pollute this legendary place which has already earned the emblem of our national pride and heritage. Finally, I would like to suggest everyone to visit this place once in their lifetime to experience eternal beauty.
हामीले एसईई परीक्षा दिनुभन्दा अगाडि तयारीमा लागिरहेको बेला नै हामीलाई भ्रमणबारे हाम्रो स्कुलको प्रधानाध्यापकज्यूले जानकारी दिनु भएकाे थियाे ।
त्यतिबेला हामी एकदम खुसी र उत्सुक भएर एसइइको तैयारी नै बिर्सेर कक्षामा हल्ला गरेको मलाई अझै पनि याद आउँछ। त्यसपछि हामी फेरि पढ्न थाल्यौं किनभने एसईई परीक्षाको दिन अझै नजिक नजिक आउँदै थियो ।
केही दिनपछि एसईई परीक्षाको दिन आयो र हामीले सबैले सबैको परीक्षा दियौँ । म त्यसबेला एकदमै बिरामी भएको थिए तर साथीहरूले साथ दिँदा मलाई धेरै गारो भइरहने चाहिँ भएन । परीक्षाका दिनहरू सकिएपछि हामीले कक्षामा एकअर्काको मुख हेर्न पाउने दिनहरू पनि सक्किए ।
बिदाको सुरुको दिनहरूमा त मलाई रमाइलो नै भएको थियो तर जब मलाई कलेजमा पढ्न सजिलो होस् भनेर ब्रिजकोर्स पढ्न पठाइयो तब मलाई मेरो रमाइलो सबै सक्किएजस्तो लागेको थियो ।
ब्रिजकोर्स पढेको १५ दिन जति हुँदा हामीलाई हाम्रो स्कुलबाट भ्रमण लैजाने समाचार आयो र म र मेरा साथीहरू निकै खुसी भयौं । यो भ्रमण हामी साथीहरूसँगको अन्तिम भ्रमण थियो र जानै पर्छ भनेर हामीले एकअर्कालाई भन्यौं । हाम्रो भ्रमण तिन दिन र दुई रातको गर्ने भनेर सूचना दिइयो र यो सूचना आउँदा त मलाई यस्तो लग्यो कि मेरा रमाइलो गर्ने दिनहरू अझै बाँकी रहेछन् । कमै भए पनि आफ्ना साथीहरूसँग एसईई सकिएको तेस्राे दिनपछि भ्रमण जना पाउनु नै मलाई ठुलो हो जस्तो लागेको थियो।
भ्रमणको दिन पनि आयो। सबैजना नभएपनि यो भ्रमण रमाइलो हुनेछ भन्ने आशा हामी सबैको मनमा थियो। त्यस दिन हामी स्कुलमा बिहान सबेरै तैयार भएर आइपुग्ने योजना गरियो र हामी बिहानै स्कुल पुग्यौं । स्कुलमा हामीलाई हामीसँग आउने सरले पर्खिरहनु भएको रहेछ। हामीले सरलाई अभिवादन गर्यौं र अरु साथीहरूसँग पनि भेट्यौँ।
मलाई मेरा साथीहरूसँग धेरैपछि यसरी भेट हुँदा निकै राम्रो लागेको थियो र हामी सबैजनाले एकार्कासँग उत्सुकताको भाव साट्याैँ। सबैकुराको टिपोट गर्दागर्दै केही समय स्कुलमै बित्यो र त्यसपछि हामी गाडीमा बस्यौँ। धेरैपछि आफ्नो स्कुलको गाडी चड्न पाउँदा मलाई खुसी लाग्यो र त्यसबेला मेरो अनुहारबाट हाँसो हट्दै हटेन । मेरा साथीहरूको अवस्था पनि यस्तै नै थियो ।
गाडी गुड्न थाल्यो र गीत बज्न थाल्यो र त्यसबेला मलाई पहिले स्कुलबाट पिकनिक गएका दिनहरू झल्झली याद आइरहेको थियो । हामी त्यस दिन बीच बीचमा विश्राम गर्न र ताजा खाना खानका लागि रोकियौँ । अनि हाम्रो गन्तव्य पोखरा पुग्दा राति भएको थियो । त्यहाँ एउटा होटेलमा बास बस्न गयौँ । हामीलाई हामीसँग आउनु भएको सरले कोठा मिलाइदिनु भयो र हामीले खाना खाएर एकछिन सबैसँग रमाइलो समय बिताएर आफ्नो कोठा तर्फ सुत्न भनि लाग्यौं ।
मलाई दिनभरि गाडीमा हिडेको थकाइले एक्कैछिनमा निदाउने बनाइदियो तर मसँगै एउटै कोठामा भएकी मेरी साथीलाई भने पेट दुखेर निन्द्रा नै आएको छैन रहेछ। उसले बिहान म उठेपछि मात्र मलाई ऊ ढिलो सुतेको कुरा भनि। त्यस बिहान हामी सबै चिया सिया खाएपछि फेवा तालतिर सरसंगै लाग्यौं र हामी डुंगामा बसेर सबैजना पालैपालो गरेर मन्दिर पनि गयौं। त्यहाँ ती माछाहरू पानीमा तैरिरहेको देख्दा मलाई किन किन सारै खुसी लग्यो। एकछिन त्यहाँ बसेर हामी होटेल फर्कियौँ र होटेलमा एकछिन बसेर हामी फेरि अर्को गन्तव्य तर्फ लाग्यौँ। भ्रमणको अझै दुई दिन र एक रात बाकी थियो। फेरि हामी गाडीमा हिड्यौँ र हामीलाई सरले महेन्द्र गुफाभित्र देखाउन लग्नुभयो। हामीले त्यही नजिकको होटेलमा खानपान गर्यौं त्यसपछि फेरि हामी महादेवको ठुलो मूर्ति भएको मन्दिर गयौँ । त्यहाँ पुग्न निकै उकालो चाड्नु परेको थियो। सारै गारो भए पनि बिस्तारै एकअर्काको साहारा लिँदै हामी हिड्यौँ । त्यहाँको भ्रमण सकिएपछि हामी फेरि गाडीमा बस्यौं गीत गयौं र रमाइलो गर्दा गर्दै हामी ढिलो भएपनि बन्दीपुर पुग्योउ र बास बस्यौँ। त्यो हाम्रो भ्रमणको अन्तिम रात थियो । त्यो रात हामी सबैले खाना खाएपछि राती अलि ढिलोसम्म गफ गर्यौं अनि हाँस्दाहाँस्दै राति १२ बजेतिर आँखा लग्यो। भोलि बिहान उठ्न सारै गारो भए पनि म उठे र हामी बन्दीपुर घुम्न हिडेरै गयौँ । त्यहाँ पनि ठुलो उकालो चढेर मन्दिर गयौँ र हरियाली अनि ताजा हावाको प्रसस्त फाइदा लियौं । त्यहाँका घरहरू अनि मानिसहरू र उनका जीवनशैली देख्यौं। काठमाडौँ भन्दा फरक भएर होला मलाई त्यो ठाउँमा अलिकति निसास्सिएकोजस्तो महसुस भएको थियो । त्यसदिन हामी होटेलमा फर्केर चिया खाएर फेरि निस्क्यौं। हामी मलेखु पुग्यौं र त्यहाँ खाना साथै त्यहाँको माछा खाना रोक्यौं। मेरा साथी सबैले माछा खाए तर मैले खाइनँ। त्यहाँ खाना खाने कार्यक्रम सिद्देपछि हामी अब फेरि गाडी चढ्याैँ र काठमाडौँतर्फ लाग्यौं ।
काठमाडौँ पुग्ने प्रक्रियामा बाटो जाम भएका कारण हामीले धेरै बेर कुर्नु परेको थियो जुन हाम्रा लागि राम्रो समय थियो। त्यस दिन ढिलो भएपनि हामी सुरछित घर फर्क्यौं। भ्रमणका ती दिनहरू पत्तै नपाउने गरि बिते । घर फर्किदा मलाई सारै न्यास्रो लागेको थियो र मलाई लाग्छ मेरा सबै साथीहरूलाई पनि त्यस्तै भएको थियो होला।
भ्रमणका ती दिनहरू मलाई प्यारो लाग्छ र कहिलेकाहीँ सम्झने गर्छु। सँगै पढेका ती सथिहरूसँगको अन्तिम भ्रमण निकै यादगार रह्यो।
म एक विद्यार्थी
प्रगतिको मेरो आधार
र त मैले पढ्नु छ
नयाँ कुरा सिक्न
अनि
ज्ञानको सदुपयोग गर्न
म एक नागरिक
देशको गौरव उकास्न
पसिनारूपि श्रम खर्चिनु छ मैले
यही माटाेमा
म एउटा छोराे
आमाबाबुलाई गाैरवान्वित पार्नु छ
श्रमकाे बिउ राेपेर
म एक सामाजिक प्राणी
समाज हित नै मेराे लक्ष्य
म एक युवा
देश विकासकाे एक सदस्य
एक खम्बा
एक ईंटा
They say the most difficult thing to be able to define is guilt. When anyone asks you what guilt is, most often the answer is regret. But how do you define regret? Are both of them the same? Personally speaking, for me regret is a realization of what you should have done instead of what you did. But Guilt is when we feel bad because we think we did something wrong, like lying or making someone sad. It's like a small voice inside us that tells us we did something bad. But sometimes, we might feel guilty even if we didn't do anything bad. If we know why we feel guilty, we can learn how to deal with it.
It is important to recognize that feelings of guilt can sometimes be unfounded, stemming from unreasonable expectations or internalized beliefs. By acknowledging the source of our guilt and critically evaluating its validity, we can begin to address and process these emotions more effectively. Furthermore, seeking support from trusted individuals or professional resources can aid in alleviating feelings of guilt, promoting a healthier emotional state.
However, guilt is a complex emotion that manifests itself in a variety of ways, each with particular details and complexity. Its nature is highlighted by the rise of deeply unsettling emotions which comes from the act of surviving an awful occurrence while others did not. Personal guilt is another factor, which results from the perception of not fulfilling one's parental duties. When someone breaks away from accepted norms, they may experience internal conflict due to cultural and societal guilt that is influenced by outside expectations.
Embracing the journey towards self-forgiveness and seeking support when necessary can play a transformative role in overcoming the weight of guilt. It allows individuals to move forward and cultivate a sense of inner peace. Forgiveness is a profound act that extends beyond oneself, contributing to a more empathetic and compassionate society. Therefore, it is essential to acknowledge the complexities of guilt and recognize the significance of forgiveness in our personal and collective well-being.
Exploring our guilt can lead to a deep understanding of ourselves and others. It opens doors to empathy and compassion, allowing us to connect on a profound level. By acknowledging and addressing our guilt, we pave the way for personal transformation and meaningful relationships. Embracing our guilt as an opportunity for growth enables us to pursue a more enriching and fulfilling life, fostering understanding and acceptance within ourselves and the world around us.
Superstition is a practice that has been going on for years. It is widely prevalent in Nepal, India, and many other developing countries. We will shortly discuss the concept of superstition and how it originates. If you consider yourself a die-hard cynic, chances are you've believed a superstition or two in your lifetime. But have you ever wondered how these superstitions materialize themselves? Early superstitions were created to address public ignorance and cause mass hysteria. Yes, they were created as a way of understanding or dealing with the fear of the unknown. If you delve deep into history, you'll be surprised to discover that almost every living superstition has its roots in an early religious belief system.
Let’s take an example from Christianity. The number 13 is considered an unlucky number. It is believed that 13 people attended the Last Supper, including Jesus and his 12 apostles. This incident happened before his arrest and death. So the 13th member has started to believe that eating food is inauspicious. At least die within a year! The fear of the number 13 became so prevalent that it is now a medically recognized phobia known as triskaidekaphobia. Whereas in Japan, the number four is considered unlucky.
It can easily be assumed that superstitions have originated since the beginning of humanity. When people face natural disasters such as hurricanes or unexpected diseases, the fear of the unknown has led them to a world of superstitions that may be affected by their actions. It was a kind of attempt to gain control over unexpected events. As humanity evolved, many superstitions were explained scientifically, but that did not mean that this irrational belief system was under control. In fact, during this period these beliefs gained a lot of momentum with the rise of various religions and soon they took an ugly turn with human sacrifice! It was a time when people began to believe that human sacrifice could actually subdue an angry god or that it could bring them prosperity. In Hinduism, the practice of sati originated, where a widowed woman was forced to burn herself with her husband on a pyre. The hold of such beliefs was so strong that some of these practices are still encouraged today if not the sati.
But not all superstitions have religious roots; some were created on individual chance factors. For example, if a person carries the same pen in every exam and happens to score well in every exam, they subconsciously start believing that the pen is their lucky item. Similarly, if a player wears a particular hat in
each of his matches, it can be assumed that this is his lucky outfit. In such a case, it can be believed that future successes will strengthen the superstitious idea. It is belief that strengthens our belief in success or
failure.
Additionally, beyond all such considerations, superstitions may result from parenting. Especially in countries like India and Nepal, superstitions are deeply embedded in our cultural practices. For example, if your childhood parents avoided crossing a black cat, chances are you will too. These are the superstitions that turn into tradition over time and its roots are centuries old. While irrational beliefs parallel our unconscious practices that may overlap in time but have specific causes.
ठुला अनि रसिला ती गाजलु आँखा
चाहिदैनन वर्णन गर्न स्वर र भाका
त्यो आँखाको हाउभाउले पारेको प्रभाव
पुरै बदली दिन्थ्यो मेरो स्वभाव
केवल त्यही तिम्रै आँखाले गरेको त्यो जादु
म पुरै मन्त्रमुग्ध भएर भए बेकाबु
लत लागेझैँ भयो मलाई तिम्रो आँखाकाे
तलाशमै थिए जब तिम्रो भाकाको
आँखा,
मैले तिमीलाई एउटा छु नजरले हेर्ने मौका पाएँ
जसबाट मैले तिमीलाई मेरा मनका कुराहरू पनि पोखाउन चाहेँ
हो,
त्यही आँखा जसले यो दुनियाँका भावलाई पनि
छुट्टै नजरले हेर्न सिकायो
त्यही आँखा जसले मुखभन्दा नि स्पष्ट भाव देखाउन अनि झल्काउन
हो,
त्यही आँखा जसलाई हेर्दा
मैले एउटा छुट्टै खालको सुन्दर नजारा देख्थेँ
त्यही आँखा जसलाई हेर्न म दिनदिनै भगवानलाई पत्र लेख्दथेँ
त्यही आँखा जसमा गाजल अनि श् श्रृङ्गारको लेप चाहिदैन
त्यही आँखा तिम्रोबाहेक आरुकोमा पाइदैन
त्यसैले त म आँखा प्रेमी छु !
