Written by: Rushav Paneru - 28018, Grade VII
Posted on: 17 February, 2023
Adolescence is a phase of transitional physical and emotional growth that usually occurs between puberty and adulthood. Although adolescence is typically thought of as occurring during the teen years, its biological, mental, or cultural manifestations can start earlier and last longer. Teenagers are children going through the adolescent period. Adolescence is a stage of life in which children undergo physical and mental changes. In this stage of life, our bodies produce new hormones. The hormones of affection, attraction, love, hatred, jealousy, etc. All get produced inside our body during this time period. Adolescents can also be called "puberty." Children get angry fast, get attracted to opposite genders, and have many mood swings.
Adolescents can have many things going on with their physical body that they feel weird about and do not want to tell their parents. At this period of life, everyone starts as a teenager at different times. I entered adolescence when I got to grade five. Adolescence is a phase of transitional physical and emotional growth that usually occurs between puberty and adulthood. Although adolescence is typically thought of as occurring during the teen years, its biological, mental, or cultural manifestations can start earlier and last longer.
When my adolescence started I was 12–13 years old. That was the point at which I began to go insane. At least that’s what my parents say. I used to get angry really fast and have thousands of mood swings in a day. I did not tell them about the changes going on in my body. I guess that was the reason they never understood me. The thing I hated the most was that, they never did it, and by never, I mean it! They never even tried to understand me. Well, it was kind of my mistake too, because I did not tell them what I was feeling. So, I can not totally blame it on them. But yes, I still feel bad when I think about the bad moments I had with my parents. Even if they had a small argument with a loud voice, I could not stop thinking about it and would get really hurt. Well, I told it to my brother, because he is the only person in this whole world that I share all of my things with. He told me that I needed to talk to my parents about it and tell them about the changes that were happening in my body and mind. I thought about it for a very long time, I mean like 2 years. For 2 years, I always used to think, "Should I really tell my parents?" But I have no idea how I did it; I asked my parents about it in 7th grade. We had a long talk about it. My father and mother explained about the changes and stuff that will happen to my mind and body and how I need to deal with them. Well, they got kind of mad after I told them after so long; but eventually we got over it. I felt weird about everything. I feel weird now too. I am sure adolescence will be easier once I learn about the changes.
Adolescence can be a confusing time, and we may feel weird about everything. However, talking to our parents and other trusted adults about what we are going through can help us navigate these changes. Understanding that these changes are a normal part of growing up can also help us to cope. Remember that everyone goes through adolescence at their own pace, so do not compare yourself to others.
In conclusion, adolescence can be a challenging but exciting time of life. By communicating with our loved ones and seeking help when needed, we can successfully navigate these changes and grow into a happy, healthy adult.
