Written by: Krishma Thapa - 27005, Grade VIII
Posted on: 08 February, 2023
Going through alot in a very young age may be traumatising but just remember it's a life lesson too.We learn alot from it. It may cause us damage but healing yourself is the best feeling. Life is always not like how we want it to be, we should always be ready for the changes. Don't let yourself turn yourself low. Motivation is just all we need. The process of healing yourself may take time but is worth it.
Everything is always not that easy, just be patient with whatever you are doing. Especially when you are trying to heal from something which caused you a lot of damage. Take your time because at last you’ll have no one to thank but yourself for healing yourself from such a thing and moving on with your life like nothing happened. The feeling is really hard to ignore especially teenagers because they think no one will understand them and keep whatever is going on with their life to themselves and that is what actually is causing damage. You may get over it but thinking about it frequently causes you damage. Stop caring about others more than yourself.
We lose friends and make new ones so stop prioritising them alot. And let yourself be all lonely there. Healing yourself and making yourself is the best for you. Give yourself time, try to keep yourself busy because if you do so it will distract you from thinking about the things that caused you damage or the words that hurt you a lot. Just let it go like it is nothing. It will take time of course but surely you will start feeling better and will start doing great with your life again. It is like a new start to your life.
Self- healing will take long but at last it is worth waiting all the time. There is something you surely love to do, try to keep yourself involved with it. Cutting off people thinking about the best for your life. You stop procrastinating, you stop caring about others a lot, all you care about is yourself, you start doing better with your life and that is where you see changes. And you know at that moment that life goes on as always. The incident taught you a lesson at a very young age you learned alot about life ahead of you.
Take your time as long as you can. Ending your life or trying to do so is not a solution to anything. Stop yourself from doing something wrong to yourself, just try your best to cope with your life. Even at such a young age there is a lot to struggle. Even if society never understands you, you should be the one to understand yourself. To heal yourself just stop caring about others. If they don't care about things going on in your life, don't just hurt yourself. All you do is heal yourself and it's the best feeling.
